The small talk just died. Now what?
Pick what you’d do. Then see the move that works, and the exact words to say.
The First Meeting
41 situations, 70 questions, scripts for him and for her. PDF, ₹249.
What would you do?
That was 1 of 41 moments in The First Meeting. The rest cover the biodata, parents in the room, money and in-law talk, texting afterwards, and saying no kindly.
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40 more moments like that one
What’s inside
- Before
- What a first meeting is really for
- 30-minute prep
- Handling nerves
- Playing to your strengths
- From match to meeting
- From chat to first date
- The first app date
- In the room
- The first 10 minutes
- When parents are in the room
- The question bank: 70 questions
- Tricky topics, politely
- Reading the other person
- Ending the meeting well
- After
- Texting afterwards
- How to decide
- Saying no kindly, and hearing no
- Pressure and safety
What you get
- 41realistic situations, each with the best move and the exact words
- 70questions, from easy to deep, with the 10 best for a first meeting marked
- 16chapters, each with lines for him and lines for her
- 4sheets to screenshot: night-before cheat sheet, decision sheet, biodata checklist, your strengths
A phone-friendly PDF. Plain English, with a little Hinglish where it sounds more natural.
Who’s behind this
Rishta Notes is a small independent publisher, and this is our first guide. It pulls together what tends to work in Indian first meetings, plus a few well-known findings from conversation research, into scripts you can use.
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Questions
Is it for men or women?
Both. Every chapter has a short part for him and a short part for her.
Only arranged marriage?
No. Two chapters are about app dates (Hinge, Bumble, Aisle and matrimony-app chats), and every chapter notes what changes on an app date.
How do I get it?
Pay by UPI or card. The PDF download link arrives on your email within minutes. Check spam if you don’t see it, or write to us.
My meeting is tomorrow. Is it too late?
No. The first pages give you a 10-minute version for the night before, plus a short cheat sheet you can read in the car.
Will anyone know I bought it?
Nobody is told. Your email is used only to send the book and reply to you. The payment shows on your statement under the checkout provider’s name. See Privacy.
Walk in knowing what to say.
The First Meeting. PDF, ₹249.
Get the book for ₹2497-day refund if it doesn’t help.